The Norm versus Me: A little Tuesday Kick in the you know what for those better than they know.

I am not the Norm. The Norm is some person that doesn’t exist… but only in media outlets, doctors, politicians, statisticians, “the smart people etc… okay.

Knock it off, stop wondering if you’re in that group of people… you probably aren’t, because like me you want to do what is right by yourself, your family, contribute to the world around you and without realizing it … you have set the new standard… of greatness and not the Norm.

The Norm is an arrogant, over confident accuser of the standard line. What happens with the standard line? Well, if I must 1+1 it for you… you either fall below or rise above it. I hate that. Like others’ viewing of me is going to determine where I arrive in this world. If I am going to “make it” and when someone is in a vulnerable, scared, or uneducated place that person succumbs into believing “the line” and hence believing in the Norm. Bite me Norm.

What makes the man (or woman) in this case… is not dependant on anyone else. Not a single other living breathing organism in this entire universe (well other than God of course)

Each person determines their own self worth – no one else… no finger pointing. I am over the “well this is the background, this is what happened to them, this is the kind of childhood they had…” Hush your mouths and zip it. Clearly as you can I am on a bit of a rant, so I will do my best not to offend anyone.

The entire mental capacity and excuse ridden finger pointing non-ownership ridiculous spoiled brat rant of “pay attention to me and my opinions because I am right and everyone else is wrong…” ugh. Vomit. OR the “My life sucks because all of this happened and I must receive attention and attention and stay in this sad little place”… (Been there done that – pathetic. I can say that because I have tried that route… not only is it ineffective, it is alienating to those you encounter, it is not your true self, and it tears apart your internal worth in your own heart)

I was not Richie Rich as a child, in fact quite the opposite. Each person has their “past”. Their past choices, actions, situations, triumphs, failures, education, experiences, loves, hates, mishaps, all of it… each person has their own backpath… it is part of who they are. (Including the people who have been in there life) There is no forgetting who has been in the past, no matter the ugly or hurtful. Each person has better insight now – because of the first hand knowledge and involvement with those types of people and situations. Each one makes us better people now – but only if we choose it. It is up to each person to make an active mental (and I suggest heartfelt) decision in to the daily moral compass type of person you want to be, go after what you want to accomplish for the day, and stop for the love of everything holy and worthy in this universe – don’t let what others say is the Norm determine if you will succeed at your own daily and life goals. Get your action plans together, write them down, and go at them. Don’t succumb to the Norm and do nothing or do something inconsistently. Be you – Be great. Be something so much more than any Norm.

Have a great day!
Much Love,
DevinAnne

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